baby emilee | our unicorn girl

Every once in a while, you get the chance to meet someone so special that they change your whole perspective on life. For me, it was the day I met Emilee. Its been almost 2 years since I first met her, but I think about her all the time <3

Miss Emilee was only 24 days old when I had the pleasure of meeting her and her parents. Born 4 weeks early with a plethora of genetic abnormalities working against her, this sweet tiny girl slept as sound as could be. At just over 3 weeks old, her mommy and daddy worked together like a well oiled machine. Changing, feeding, checking monitors, and adjusting tubes and cords. By now, they had a system for taking care of sweet Emilee, and she was just along for the ride. 

As I stood back to photograph, I also watched. I was in awe of the amount of strength both Emilee and her parents had to be able to continue to fight and have such a positive and hopeful outlook. Granted Emilee didn't know any other way than what she was doing, but her parents did. Logan and Lauren could have easily give up hope in such an abnormal and strenuous situation. But they didn't. They stayed strong. For themselves. For each other. And most of all, for Emilee. I could tell you more about how meeting Emilee made me feel, but it wouldn't really mean much because I only met her that one day. That is why I am going to turn this story over to her mother, Lauren....

Mom, Lauren, feeding baby Emilee through a syringe.

Mom, Lauren, feeding baby Emilee through a syringe.

"To start our story off at the very beginning. We tried for a little over year before we got pregnant with Emilee. Unfortunately, I was diagnosed with Epilepsy soon after we decided to try and get pregnant. With the medication that I was initially put on, I wasn’t allowed to get pregnant. So that put a pause on our plans for about 4 months. We started trying again, and it took about 6 more months until we got pregnant. Roughly 12 weeks into the pregnancy, we found out that Emilee was sick. We were told that she had a very rare genetic disease and there were only a handful of documented cases and they didn’t think that she would survive. For the next couple months, the genetic counselor at our doctor’s office somewhat pushed for us to terminate. We thought very hard about that and in the end, we just couldn’t do it. The rest of the pregnancy was very emotional. She seemed to be doing everything that she needed to be doing, the only problem was that she wasn’t gaining weight. The doctors very much did not think that she would make it full term and always made sure that we understood that that was a possibility. On my 36 week check up, the doctor said that I needed to be induced because I had almost no amniotic fluid. Emilee was taken by c-section and weighed 2 pounds 7 ounces. She came out with deformed legs and we knew then that she wouldn’t be able to walk. She was placed on oxygen right away because of rib deformities, she had some fused ribs, which made her struggle to breath. The same day she was born, she had to undergo a surgery. She wasn’t able to defecate by herself, so she was given a colostomy. She only had one kidney, so to make sure that she wouldn’t go into kidney failure, she was given a vesicostomy.”

“As time went on, she was diagnosed with more and more: Arthrogryposis for her legs, Caudal regression syndrome for her colostomy, Chronic Lung Disease and Respiratory Insufficiency Syndrome for her lungs. She had an av canal, pulmonary hypertension, a tortuous aorta, and multiple ventroseptal defects in her heart. When she was a few weeks old, she lost her voice and turned out she had Tracheomalacia, which is a weakening of the trachea. Her spinal cord was severely curved because of scoliosis.”

“What was the catalyst to all of these defects was her chromosome 8. It didn’t turn out “quite right”, in layman’s terms, so that’s what the doctors think is why she had all of these wrong with her. The diagnosis is so rare that it doesn’t have a name, so the doctors called it by its technical term: Trisomy 8 q, monosomy 8 p, and duplication of homogeneous 8 chromosome. The doctor’s had never seen anyone like Emilee and they liked to call her “a very complex baby”. But to us, she was our rare little girl that we had always dreamed of. That’s where we got “unicorn” from. She was and always will be our unicorn girl."

Unfortunately, baby Emilee’s abnormalities were too much for her tiny body to handle, and she passed away only two short months after she was born.

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EMILEE OLIVIA UPTEGROVE
APRIL 26, 2017 - JUNE 27, 2017
Our Unicorn Girl
Gone, But Never Forgotten

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